So I stayed up way to late last night watching a tv series on Netflix last night. I’ve been watching the show Felicity. I used to think I was missing out on so much as a child by not watching a lot of tv. As I watch tv shows from the 90’s and the shows from the turn of the 21st century, I’ finding out I wasn’t missing out on too much. I mean I watched the entire series of Melrose Place and i told myself that nothing much has changed in tv, except for the graphics and the quality of tv itself. I came from a home in which we did not have cable or even local tv. My parents encouraged us children to play outdoors, or use our minds to entertain ourselves. As a child I hated to entertain myself, in fact I hated playing by myself. My brothers and I didn’t hang out all that much because there were 5 of them and only one of me, and I think my mother didn’t want us fighting with each other. I mean if I had 6 children to attend to I would want as much peace in the house as much as possible, so I can understand her intentions, but I was honestly lonely and wished I had a sister to share my childhood . Anyhow, tv was not a huge priority in our house. We were busy with school, church, or 4-H activities. What makes this more fascinating my husband grew up in a very similar type of home and he too did not have much tv growing up as a young child . In fact we both grew up on VHS cartoon tapes , trips to the video store in town,movies from the 50 and 60’s , older classic tv shows, and musicals. I am grateful that we both experienced this because now that we have a family of our own we do the same with our children. We. not only do we encourage our children to watch the older classics, but we also allow them to watch newer shows that are clean and wholesome. We understand why our parents encouraged us to go out and play and use our minds that God gave us My children are getting older and they beginning to like more mature movies and shows. I can’t wait til the day my daughter likes watching chick flicks and British Drama with me, and I am thinking my husband will enjoy the day he and his son can watch a good action adventure movie or comedy together. It’s amazing how becoming a parent changes your view of things.
However the only thing my husband and I do differently then what I was used to when it comes to tv entertainment is that we have tons of video games we all enjoy playing. Video games was a huge part of my husband’s childhood, so we have passed that a long to our children too. I mean they don’t play obsessively but they do play video games more then I ever did as a child.